From Bukidnon to Bangkok: How One Filipina’s Faith and Resilience Led Her to Lead in Thailand
I grew up in Lunocan, Manolo Fortich, Bukidnon. A quiet, simple town. Life was humble, just enough to get through the day. We did not have much, but you learn gratitude fast when you grow up like that.
Hardship was my biggest teacher. It shaped my dreams and my determination to break the cycle of poverty. I wanted to be the turning point in my family’s story.
In the Philippines, I worked as a Junior Accountant for a memorial lot company. Almost 12 hours a day, 5 to 6 days a week. It was exhausting, but it built the discipline I would carry with me everywhere. Still, the earnings were not enough and the cost of living kept rising. I knew if I wanted a different life, I had to risk it. I took my chances and applied in Dubai.
An unexpected opportunity came while I was working there. I had taught a friend some basic accounting, and she introduced me to the owner of an international fine jewellery company. He flew me to Thailand. I did not feel ready, but I said yes. That decision changed my life.
When I arrived, I was the only Filipino in a building of more than 700 Thai colleagues, none of them speaking English. For the first 2 to 3 years, I survived on body language and patience. Filipinos work fast, while Thais take life slow. It taught me to slow down, listen, and connect.
Now I am the Group Financial Controller for our company, leading a team across the United States, the UAE, Switzerland, the United Kingdom, and Thailand. I plan, make big decisions, and work closely with the board. But what excites me most is not the numbers, it is the chance to lead with kindness, humility, and love in every culture I touch.
Burnout is real. There were moments I wanted to quit. But I have learned my strength does not come from the job, it comes from God. Habakkuk 3:19 reminds me: “The Lord God is my strength; he will make my feet like deer’s feet; he will make me tread on my high places.” Serving in church recharges me. Building a healthy, joyful community in Thailand keeps me grounded.
When I was younger, I thought success meant wealth, fame, and luxury. Now I know it is quiet contentment, Christ-like relationships, and living with purpose. I do not own big houses or expensive cars. What I have is the opportunity to bless others, the access to help, and the joy of living in peace.
My mother taught us to pray, and that has been my compass. In times of uncertainty, I lean on God’s promises, like Isaiah 58:11: “The Lord will guide you always… you will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.”
To Filipinos dreaming of working abroad, my advice is simple. Go for it. Step out. The world will open your eyes, stretch your heart, and push your limits. It is not easy, but it is worth it. And as you chase your dreams, remember this. Life gives you two gems, money and time. If you lose time, you lose the chance to earn. But if you lose money, you still have time. Use both with generosity, and you will find joy that riches cannot buy.
If I could speak to my younger self, I would say: Be bold. Take risks. Sacrifice more. There is no shortcut through the pain, but one day you will stand in a room full of wealthy people and still be the richest in joy, peace, and purpose. Thank God for the journey. Every tear will have shaped you.